Thursday, September 10, 2009

Poetry: My only love

I can't find the exact words
That describes what I truly feel
For what I knew is that I'm happy
Every time you are near

I've been searching for years
But none can be compared of
To this wonderful feeling
That seems to be so real

Even the sun and the stars
Their brightness seems not enough
As I see the glow of your eyes
And the smile of your lips

I bet this love story is different
Not even dreams can express it
But just one tender kiss from my only love
And my life will be complete

Poetry: This love

In every search of my heart
In every happiness that I long to feel
In every breath that I take
In every dream that I wish
In every thing that I do
This love of mine is the answer


In every song that I sing
In every sight that I appreciate
In every step that I follow
In every trial that I pass
In every fight that I survive
This love of mine is the reason

Poetry: Loving you

Loving you is what I want to do
For it brings joy to my heart
With your sense of humor
That taught me how to laugh

Loving you is what I dream of
For it shows the way to my happiness
With just your simple smile
That leads me to my fantasies

Loving you is what I care about
For it made me feel important
With your sincere appreciation
That taught me to be confident at all times

Loving you is what I'm looking for
For it is the missing part of my life
With your sweet words of love
That makes my day complete

Loving you is what I wish for
For it made me feel secured
With your sincere support
That gives me courage to fight

Loving you is what I think about
For it gives me inspiration
With your loving hugs and kisses
That made me feels the woman in me

Loving you is the right thing for me to do
For it shows the best in me
With your gentle encouragement
That boosts myself to strive

Loving you is what I always pray for
For it gives me enlightenment and purity
With your words of wisdom
That guides my life to goodness

Loving you is what I'm fighting for
For it is the only thing I all ever wanted
With your life being shared to me
That is the last thing I only wish for

Poetry: Real love

Dear heart, so young, so naive
Others think you can't stand alone
For every beat, do they know?
The kind of feeling you have inside
Freedom to love is not given
For your heart is not allowed
Pretending not to feel
This kind of magic that lingers on
Deep inside, your heart rejoice
For it knows what it's meant
And let them be amazed someday
That what you found is real love

Saturday, February 28, 2009

Do mama's boys make good husband material

Definitely not because his concern is only for the welfare of his mother and not of his partner. A mama’s boy husband doesn’t know his personal identity or rather say, he doesn’t even have his own identity. All he knew is what his mother had made him believed he is. All his life is dependent on what his mother will tell him to do and say. He always obeys his mother even to the point that his mother is already interfering with his marital life.

He can’t be a good husband for it takes to be a responsible man to be a good husband and a mama’s boy is definitely not a candidate because he is considered a weakling. A mama’s boy does not make his own life plan instead he is just waiting for his mother to do the planning for him. And if he makes decision, he will not do it by himself nor consult it with his wife; instead he will consult his mother.

A mama’s boy husband maybe considered a good obedient son to his mother dear but can never be a good husband to his wife. Because a certified mama’s boy is only after his mother’s happiness and not of his wife’s happiness. He only do things that is favorable for his mom and what can make his mother happy even in exchange, his wife will be in misery. Whatever things you’ll do to impress him, will only be compared to what his mother always do for him. You will always end up as second poor to what his mother have accomplished.

My only advice to women who have a “mama’s boy” husband, better start thinking twice or trice or many times for even if you keep on striving, you can’t take away your mama’s boy husband out his mother’s skirt. For as long as his mother lives on earth, she will always be a continuous hindrance to your happiness and your mama’s boy husband will never learn to be a good, responsible man of the house but just a good obedient little boy under his mother’s skirt.

And if in case you finally realize that your husband is truly a “mama’s boy” in every aspect of the word, and you can no longer tolerate the situation, never ever ask him to choose between you and his mother if you wish to save your heart from being hurt and neglected. Because for sure, he will choose his mother over you. Instead, the least thing you can do for yourself is to start stepping out of his life and find your own happiness by moving on. For it will only take few years to cry out for losing the man you love but it will take a lifetime for you to suffer under his mother’s spell.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

What makes a woman sexy?

For men, the epitome of a real woman is being sexy. Admit it or not, but it is a fact that men admires woman who is in shape, as in feminine figure. There are lots of women gifted with beautiful and angelic faces but lacks enough sex appeal to attract a guy. And there are woman with ordinary faces but projects oozing sexy appeal to man. Every woman has a seductive goddess in themselves. It is just they don't know how to flaunt it and use it to their advantage.

So what makes a woman sexy? Here are some tips on how you can make yourself look sexy in the eyes of your man:

LEARN TO FLAUNT YOUR ASSETS

Not all time that a shapely vital statistics is always the basis for being sexy. Sometimes, a woman even without a perfect 36-24-36 vital statistics can feel and make herself look sexy. The secret is to flaunt your best asset. Not all women are gifted with perfect body parts but I believe that each woman have a distinct body part that can be considered as her most attractive asset like for example, flawless skin, soft and shiny hair, cute dimples, full lips, perfectly shaped legs, or sexy eyes. Making these assets noticeable will surely increase your physical appeal making guys wonder and fantasize about how it feels to hold and caress it thereby making them see you as sexy.

STAY FEMININE AS ALWAYS

Although nowadays, women seems to be versatile by doing the same as what man can afford to accomplish, it still admirable in the eyes of a man to see that femininity in his woman. Being active as a man do is no excuse not to look feminine and sexy. Maintaining your sweetness can add sex appeal that can make you feel and look sexy. One way to stay sweet is to always make yourself in your best smelling scent. Use shampoo, conditioner, perfume or other beauty products that can produce sweet smelling scent that can attract your man. It is also advisable to always wear something that will distinguish you from men like feminine style and sexy dress or skirt rather than wearing jeans. And always maintain your voice in a sweet tone and avoid being harsh, bossy and commanding.

ALWAYS WEAR A JOLLY SMILE

Women with a jolly image always look smart and friendly. These women have the ability to capture man's attention and make themselves look and feel sexy. Remember, smiling is one of the biggest people magnets you can ever use. For a cheerful smile always begets a hundred smiles in return.

BEING INDEPENDENT

Most likely, men admire a woman who knows how to handle herself in every situation and does not depend totally in her man. For a woman who is independent does not feel insecure and always knows what she wants. Her confidence will make her feel and look sexy all the time.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

The best advice for women going on a blind date

It is normal to see couples on a romantic date. Dating is truly one unforgettable experience for women. Some even want it to be extra exciting by agreeing to go on a blind date.

A blind date is a specially arranged date by two people involved who have not met each other personally. Sometimes it is arranged by mutual friends or other person known to both parties. It is like a matching scheme where the third party (the one who planned the date) feels that these two people look good together. So instead of introducing them formally with each other, a blind date will be planned.

There are lots of reasons why people agree to a blind date. For men, usually, it is out of curiosity and excitement. For women, it can be for joyous experience, or a means of finding "Mr. Right". Because there are known events of successful blind date where two people involved were finally ended up happily with each other.

But according to psychologist, a blind date is one of the most stressful emotional experiences. This is because both parties lack self-confidence and feels inevitable fear of being rejected. Here are some best advices for women going on a blind date:

* Before agreeing to a blind date, verify your source of information. Confirm the identity of the person you will have for a blind date or if it is your friend's choice, ask more information how well your friend knew that person.

* Prepare yourself physically and emotionally. Make yourself beautiful but do not exaggerate. Remember, simplicity is still the best for it shows the real you. Do not expect too much from your blind date and avoid being over confident to minimize the feeling of disappointment in case your date doesn't fit your taste.

* Agree to a public place as your date venue such as restaurant, mall or park to ensure safety. Don't trust too much even if he is recommended by your friend for you still don't know him well.

* Make your conversation lively but be sure to give him space to talk about himself for you to get additional information. If you feel like you don't want the topic he is saying, divert the discussion discretely.

* If you find your blind date likeable, give your best shot to impress him but don't overdo it for he might consider you bragging. Give him some clue about the things that will impress you but make sure it doesn't sound too obvious.

* However, if you find your blind date not impressive, avoid giving him false hope. Tell him straight what you truly feel but do it on a nice friendly way to avoid embarrassment or awkward situations.